<?xml version='1.0' encoding='UTF-8'?><?xml-stylesheet href="http://www.blogger.com/styles/atom.css" type="text/css"?><feed xmlns='http://www.w3.org/2005/Atom' xmlns:openSearch='http://a9.com/-/spec/opensearchrss/1.0/'><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-19070036.post5400457106916626889..comments</id><updated>2008-07-23T17:06:33.272+01:00</updated><title type='text'>Comments on FORTIFY YOUR OASIS: Secretary abuse</title><link rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#feed' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://fortifyservices.blogspot.com/feeds/5400457106916626889/comments/default'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/19070036/5400457106916626889/comments/default'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://fortifyservices.blogspot.com/2008/05/secretary-abuse.html'/><author><name>Rowan Manahan</name><uri>http://www.blogger.com/profile/14419782365041965920</uri><email>rowan.manahan@gmail.com</email></author><generator version='7.00' uri='http://www.blogger.com'>Blogger</generator><openSearch:totalResults>3</openSearch:totalResults><openSearch:startIndex>1</openSearch:startIndex><openSearch:itemsPerPage>25</openSearch:itemsPerPage><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-19070036.post-4069759507010893484</id><published>2008-07-23T17:06:00.000+01:00</published><updated>2008-07-23T17:06:00.000+01:00</updated><title type='text'>Granny &amp; Karen - Yes! Ridiculous that anyone would...</title><content type='html'>Granny &amp;amp; Karen - Yes! Ridiculous that anyone would expect that kind of &amp;#39;service&amp;#39; from a skilled administrative assistant.&lt;BR/&gt;&lt;BR/&gt;I came across one other approach which really worked, whereby the PA in question was a model of efficiency and skill for all real-work activities and somehow managed to bungle all the personal stuff she was asked to do. Very subtly done and it gradually drove the message home.&lt;BR/&gt;&lt;BR/&gt;It reminds me of the advice given to young grooms on their wedding day - do everything that your wife asks you to do. Do it quickly, willingly and badly ...</content><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/19070036/5400457106916626889/comments/default/4069759507010893484'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/19070036/5400457106916626889/comments/default/4069759507010893484'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://fortifyservices.blogspot.com/2008/05/secretary-abuse.html?showComment=1216829160000#c4069759507010893484' title=''/><author><name>Rowan Manahan</name><uri>http://www.blogger.com/profile/14419782365041965920</uri><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:extendedProperty xmlns:gd='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005' name='OpenSocialUserId' value='04286125404301434205'/></author><thr:in-reply-to xmlns:thr='http://purl.org/syndication/thread/1.0' href='http://fortifyservices.blogspot.com/2008/05/secretary-abuse.html' ref='tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-19070036.post-5400457106916626889' source='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/19070036/posts/default/5400457106916626889' type='text/html'/></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-19070036.post-7154579712046388610</id><published>2008-05-13T16:01:00.000+01:00</published><updated>2008-05-13T16:01:00.000+01:00</updated><title type='text'>I have to agree that this is just pathetic on the ...</title><content type='html'>I have to agree that this is just pathetic on the part of a manager. If you can't manage your day-to-day life, why are you managing people? Especially in smaller companies where the admin likely has other people to support (in an actual work-related capacity)this is the kind of self-important message that makes my skin crawl. &lt;BR/&gt;&lt;BR/&gt;What makes someone think this is acceptable??</content><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/19070036/5400457106916626889/comments/default/7154579712046388610'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/19070036/5400457106916626889/comments/default/7154579712046388610'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://fortifyservices.blogspot.com/2008/05/secretary-abuse.html?showComment=1210690860000#c7154579712046388610' title=''/><author><name>Karen</name><uri>http://www.blogger.com/profile/11696882485622869640</uri><email>noreply@blogger.com</email></author><thr:in-reply-to xmlns:thr='http://purl.org/syndication/thread/1.0' href='http://fortifyservices.blogspot.com/2008/05/secretary-abuse.html' ref='tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-19070036.post-5400457106916626889' source='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/19070036/posts/default/5400457106916626889' type='text/html'/></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-19070036.post-3738555022805099652</id><published>2008-05-02T21:54:00.000+01:00</published><updated>2008-05-02T21:54:00.000+01:00</updated><title type='text'>I was once asked to do the 'cleaning run' many liv...</title><content type='html'>I was once asked to do the 'cleaning run' many lives ago and I said "Certainly!"&lt;BR/&gt;&lt;BR/&gt;I went to the cleaners and then for a coffee not returning to the office for two hours.  The manager enquired if everything was alright.  "Perfect" I replied "Since it was ok to do your personal business on office time, I decided to do some of my own!"&lt;BR/&gt;&lt;BR/&gt;Needless to say I was never asked to do anything like that again ;)</content><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/19070036/5400457106916626889/comments/default/3738555022805099652'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/19070036/5400457106916626889/comments/default/3738555022805099652'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://fortifyservices.blogspot.com/2008/05/secretary-abuse.html?showComment=1209761640000#c3738555022805099652' title=''/><author><name>Grannymar</name><uri>http://grannymar.com/blog</uri><email>noreply@blogger.com</email></author><thr:in-reply-to xmlns:thr='http://purl.org/syndication/thread/1.0' href='http://fortifyservices.blogspot.com/2008/05/secretary-abuse.html' ref='tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-19070036.post-5400457106916626889' source='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/19070036/posts/default/5400457106916626889' type='text/html'/></entry></feed>